Forgive Me, Father, For I Am Only Here for The Meatballs, Drinking, and Gambling

One of the things I love most about Winter is the return of an event I call “The Catholic Festival”.  I’m not Catholic, as demonstrated by the facts that:  (a) I don’t need to be tied up and beaten in order to have a good time on a date, and (b) there is a lack of existential guilt present in my general daily demeanor.

I was raised with a light smattering of Protestantism from time to time, and what it lacks in guilt it more than makes up for in the worst potluck dishes you’ve ever eaten in your entire life.  You would think Campbells Cheddar Cheese condensed soup was these people’s personal savior.  I’m surprised they didn’t serve little cups of it with the communion which, by the way, is simultaneously the least showy and most pathogen-containing communion in the world.  At least Catholics use a real wafer and an actual cup – and everybody gets their own!

In some Protestant churches I visited as a kid, they would bust out a loaf of stale bread from Costco and then pass it around and you’d have to tear off a piece with your filthy hands and pass it to the next person’s filthy hands so they could tear off a piece, and so on and so on, and by the end of all that tearing and passing, the loaf looks like a flock of rats had a field day with it.  Unruly children are forced to use the remainder as a sad punishment football after Sunday school.

And instead of a little cup of wine or grape juice, they make you dip your germalicious bread-shred into a big shared glass of grape juice and THEN eat the soggy, purple bread!

Now, I’m not religious, nor do I have any sort of religious education*, and I don’t mean to offend anyone here because people should be entitled to believe what they want to believe, but I’m pretty sure that the Eucharist, the sacred Eucharist, that which is supposed to represent the body and blood of Christ, were meant to be ingested separately and not made into some kind of unholy combo meal that you swallow in one soggy bite.

Sacrilegious?!  I’m not being sacrilegious!  The people who’ve turned communion into a Smuckers Uncrustable are the ones who are being sacrilegious!  Take some of that money you collect in the coffers and buy some wafers and cups for crying out loud.  They’re not expensive and you don’t even pay sales tax!

Where was I?  Oh yeah, The Catholic Festival!

Of course, it’s not actually called “The Catholic Festival”.  It’s called the “St. Something of Somewhere Parish Something or Other Festival”.  Since I didn’t have to grow up in the Catholic church, I find the pageantry of their religion absolutely fascinating.

I mean, how many worldwide religions can declare someone to be a saint after they die and then carve up their dead body and send the pieces on world tours, where worshipers clamor and gather to pray over a severed finger?  Who does that?!  That’s like something out of a movie!  Here’s an actual line from an actual story about it I found on Pulpit and Pen:

The severed hand of Saint Francis Xavier will be making a 14-city tour of Canada from January 3 to February 2. It will be traveling with Angèle Regnier, who says the adventure “will be like having a road trip with a friend.” On flights, the hand will have its own seat next to Regnier.


Then there’s the kneeling, the rosaries, the confessional, the holy water, the candles, that dangly incense thing they throw around, Jon Bon Jovi’s chest hair – all fascinating.  Traditional Mass is delivered in a language that nobody even speaks or understands!  And the clergy outfits!  The clergy outfits alone are worth the price of admission.  That’s quality craftsmanship there!

Imagine how boring The Da Vinci Code would have been if it were centered around something lame and boring, like Presbyterians.  The entire cast would consist of Tom Hanks talking to a volleyball and – spoiler – they already made that movie and it’s called Castaway.  Conspiracy alert!  Don’t send me weird emails about this.

Aside from the general pageantry, I love The Catholic Festival so much because it features three of my favorite things in the whole world all under one roof:

A rummage sale;

A roulette wheel where not only can you gamble but the prizes are bottles of hard liquor; and

Food tents where they serve seemingly endless meatball subs made by Italian nonnas named Isotta and Allegra.

If I didn’t know any better I’d say that with perks like that, these people are actively recruiting, but as most Catholics will tell you, they don’t really want your sorry ass.  If you weren’t born into it, they’re not interested.  Sure, there are ways to convert, but even if you did, you know every time you walked out of the room, the born-in Catholics would say, “So, now that it’s just us real Catholics in the room…”

That’s why there’s no hard sell when you walk around the festival. No pamphlets, no sign-up sheets. Try walking into an unfamiliar Methodist church and see if you even make it through the front door without being tackled by three women named Kitty who want to sign you up to run the pancake breakfast, teach Sunday school, and join the choir.

You’ll never be woken up by a Catholic knocking on your door on a Saturday morning asking if you’ve accepted Jesus Christ as your personal savior.  They just wait until you show up at the festival and then yell, “Meatball sub tent is in the parking lot, heathen!  Good luck in Hell!”

It’s like they don’t want me to join their religion at all, which as George Costanza would tell you, makes them that much more desirable to me.

Sometimes I think about sneaking into a regular service on a Sunday just for the food and the show but I’m pretty sure someone would spot me standing when I should be kneeling and they would drag me out there like a sack of potatoes while I screamed, “Chill, Catholics!  I’m only here for the pageantry!”

So I do the next best thing.  I go to The Catholic Festival once a year and take it all in.  I buy vintage knick-knacks at the rummage sale with a stiff cocktail in one hand and a soft meatball sub in the other.  I bring gambling money – to a church!  I eye the rosaries that are for sale by the door as the old nuns eye me back, knowing that they know damn well I’m an imposter and if I tried to buy a rosary they would very sarcastically say, “You know this isn’t a necklace that you wear, right sweetie?” before snatching it back from me and laughing.

Then I would skulk away, wondering if any of their severed fingers will ever end up on a world tour BECAUSE IF THEY PLAYED THEIR CARDS RIGHT THAT COULD LITERALLY HAPPEN.

*Every single thing I know about Catholics I learned from the two hundred times I’ve watched Saturday Night Fever.  Shout out to John Travolta’s hair.

The man is a national treasure.


18 thoughts on “Forgive Me, Father, For I Am Only Here for The Meatballs, Drinking, and Gambling

  1. If you enjoyed the Catholic festival I highly recommend the Greek festivals should you run across one. The Greek church near the intersection of Southern Blvd and South Olive Avenue in West Palm is outstanding. If you think you love meatlball sub……well…can you say Souvlaki? The don’t even care if you pronounce Gyro as Gee Row. Don’t get me started on the pastries.

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    1. I used to go to the Greek Orthodox one in Boca, but after I went to a Roman Catholic festival it ruined me for all other religious festivals. The roulette wheel with the bottles of hard liquor as the prize really sealed the deal for me!


  2. Well it seems you’ve had fun at the Catholic festivals of St. Something or Other…lol
    As a convert from Catholicism to Baptist (which by the way my mother absolutely hated) you are lucky to have not been raised in the Catholic church, my opinion only lets not start a holy war here. She said that I was baptized a Catholic and I responded with, I was three months old what the fuck did I know? Did I have a choice? No I didn’t you made it for me. That was my argument, and after about 26 years she’s come to accept that I am not a Catholic, well maybe. But, yes those festivals are “interesting” the church in my hometown has one twice a year, it’s wonderful. I even won May Princess for four years in a row when I was eleven (I had the cape, tiara and scepter to match) little did I know it wasn’t a popularity contest. It was judged on how much money you could raise for the church. The reason I won was because my parents had the hamburger booth at the festival and sold a shitload of hamburgers (my mom owned a restaurant she knew her shit) and out sold the other contestants easily. Ahh the days of catechism, creepy nuns with yard sticks hitting you on the knuckles, the smell of that creepy incense you mentioned and the soft glow of those red candle holders and the smell of melting wax on the sides of the alter. This is how I remember my Catholic experience, just thought I’d share, lol.

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    1. I always assume this is why people who convert to Catholicism aren’t typically considered “Real Catholics”. If I had to go through all that stuff growing up, I’d be super pissed at someone who just sauntered in at the age of 40, asked for a sprinkling of holy water, and BAM! Instant Catholic.

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      1. Instant Catholic, I like that. And history has actually put your theory into practice. For example the crusades and the inquisition, they were all about of converting those of “other” religions into Catholics by means of “instant” conversion. If they refused they’d die, it’s like Eddie Izzard’s explanation of how the church of England works. He say’s Church of England it’s more like Cake or Death…lol

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  3. This was hilarious. I went to Catholic schools and remember well the excitement and anticipation when body parts of saints came through our city.

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  4. Catholic educated atheist here. Enjoyed this. Learning about saints was weird, but as I was still in my medieval-war-and-torture-machine-appreciation phase when we did those lessons, I also got a lot of fun out of it too.

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  5. Makes me so happy that my parents were both agnostic and never made me step foot inside any church except for one ill-fated Sunday School session. The other day at the grocery store, I tried a sample of some meat and the lady kept extolling the fact that it was kosher. I said, “I don’t know what that is, and it doesn’t really matter to me” and she looked really offended by my honesty. I thought kosher was some kind of salt or pickle or whatnot.

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